He walked her to her car, and she never heard from him again. Undeterred, John asked a second time Holly said no. I can only imagine what else you can do with your mouth.'' She was so taken aback that she started laughing: Her halter top and heels littered his floor, but he expected her to give him oral? 'That's a boyfriend privilege, and you're not my boyfriend,' she replied. A few minutes into making out, recalls Holly, 'He tells me, You're such a good kisser. At the end of date number three, they went home together. Just ask Holly,* a 28-year-old sales rep from Houston, about the experience she now refers to as 'the incident.' Things started out fine: She'd met John, a cute financial broker, on and had been on two low-key dates. Fellatio, blow jobs, going downtown, giving head-we blush a bit just printing the words. If you're married to a guy, are living with a guy or have dated a guy anytime this past millennium, it's probably no surprise to you that what guys want more of is oral sex.